One may understand the cosmos, but never the ego; the self is more distant than any star. G. K. Chesterton What is your ego? Have you ever observed the moment in time when your ego triggers? Are you by any chance insecure or threatened in some what when your ego triggers…? From this we can […]
Coping with Change
Life is like surfing, you can either surf the wave and have fun or you can be dumped by it. Either way you are heading towards the beach! There are a few important observations that I have made in my life so far. One of them is that nothing ever works out as planned, another […]
Wonder!
Wonder – noun, strange or remarkable thing. Happy emotion caused by what is unexpected. When last did you experience a sense of wonder? When last did you experience a strange or remarkable thing? When last were you happily surprised? When the so called spiritual masters and gurus say that we must become like children to […]
When do I need HELP?
When do I need Help? Why do we feel that if we ask for help, we are a failure? Why do we expect ourselves to know everything? An airline pilot undergoes years of intensive training and apprenticeship understudy systems before he / she is able to successfully fly you to your exotic holiday destination. No […]
Listening
“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply” Stehpen R. Covey How often to you feel as if you have been heard? How often do you understand what is being said to you? Do we listen carefully, or do we listen to others and try […]
Tolerance
“If civilization is to survive, we must cultivate the science of human relationships – the ability of all peoples, of all kinds, to live together, in the same world at peace.” Franklin D Roosevelt Why is it so hard for us to engage each other in a peaceful and meaningful way? Is your […]
Under Pressure
“Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.” Chinese Proverb We run around from person to person, from meeting to meeting, from situation to situation and back again, always squeezing in a little bit more, day in day out…. Sound familiar? Why do we do this, put ourselves second so […]
You Are What You Think
You Are what you THINK! “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he” Proverbs 23:7 Scary thought? How much data do you process every minute of every day? How much of that data is relevant to your survival? How much of that data has been chosen by you? Technology allows […]
Get What You Want!
“Money and Destiny” “If you create an act, you create a habit If you create a habit, you create a character, If you create a character, you create a destiny.” Andre Maurois 1885 – 1967 One of the great stressors that we have in our lives is money! It is intricately linked […]
Winning
Do you want to be right, or do you want to win? “Don’t say no, go with the flow” Depak Chopra What are you willing to do to win? Is it important? Why? Why do you want to be right? Is it important? Why? Chatting to a few friends this week, […]