Do you Feel Lost?
Often my clients say to me;
“I feel lost!”
We often lose ourselves in the debate of life, when we suspend reason and logic and engage in maliciousness and hate.
Every single one of us is unique and as such we are always perfect all the time. Don’t lose yourself in the cacophony of external opinion, engage that opinion yes, but maintain your humanness, your personal values and identity.
Petty Political Drama
I like to see politicians squirm when having to answer difficult questions, to see robust debate and even physical confrontation in parliaments or political assemblies.
I like to read the heated comments on news forums, watch the inner warrior come to the fore and propose or defend a particular point of view or opinion,
I like to watch and see how opinion is swayed against logic by skilfully crafted emotional argument.
Engaging With Each Other
These forums and parliaments are supposed to work like that. It is seldom that they think “I feel lost”!
We are supposed to engage each other to explore, explain, express and air our frustrations and grievances in ways that are not physically harmful to ourselves or others.
What Is Important to You
If you are feeling lost, then take some time to write down what is important to you.
The usual suspects will appear, family friends and work, but I urge you to delve a bit deeper.
Look at your inner core and see what is important to who you think you are and how you define yourself. These observations will change over time, but for now understand the core of who you are and what you stand for and why.
Then revisit those forums or parliamentary debate channels and see how your interaction has matured.
Revisit your life issues and see if you still feel lost!
Don’t lose yourself in the drama, rise above it with wisdom and enjoy it!
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